Love at First Sight!

If you fall in love with someone’s face and/or body, not them as a person, which would take time to get to know–are you really falling in love with them?

Of course relationships begin when one person is attracted to another, but through the relationship, this attraction deepens to include the other’s personality and quirks. It’s important to reach the deepness of this attraction at some point, otherwise you’re basically falling in love with a body–a mask, if you will.

I’ve always questioned the idea of relationships. When I envision a perfect relationship I envision getting to know someone on a mental and emotional level and only then beginning a physical relationship. So love at first sight isn’t exactly relevant.

But ultimately, it’s up to you to decide how you approach relationships. There isn’t a right or wrong way to do it– there is a more preferable way though that will lead to long term happiness. But for people looking for short term enjoyment and happiness, you may find yourself seeing love at first sight.

#loveatfirstsight #love #sad #happy #relationship

From Stranger to True Friend   

It was a day when we both were strangers for each other but since we started talking we came to know each other

I have been surrounded by lots of friends but i always had a feeling that someone is missing but since the day you came in my life now i have a feeling that i started missing someone

When i was alone i faced and cleared the obstacles with lot of difficulty but after getting your support those difficulty converted into tranquillity

I always used to crack the pointless jokes to make fun of you but as soon as you used to laugh at my jokes it gave me feeling that you were the one i was missing.

I am your friend and forever will be but if you promise always to remember me

I met you as as a stranger i got to know you as a friend ,on me you can depend you are my true friend.

#Friends #love #stranger

Love Yourself

There are people who have broken your heart. Who have hurt you. Who have broken your trust. But look carefully. There are some who love you, who trust you and are proud of you. Yes, there were things that didn’t work. There were moments when life was really harsh. But think carefully. There were moments when things worked out the way you wanted. When you were smiling. When life was pleasant. Yes, you made mistakes. You felt bad for yourself. But think carefully. There were moments when you were proud of yourself. When you followed your heart. When you did what you wanted to do. So relax. Your past is gone. Shape your future and have fun in the present. Life is never the way we want it to be. But that’s the way it is. You are not perfect. No one else is. You have flaws. Everyone has. You made mistakes. Everyone has. You failed at something. Everyone has. You can try again. So relax. You are a good human being. You are lovable. You are beautiful. Don’t be so harsh on your life. Love Yourself. Because you deserve the best and that is you.

One-Sided Love

“One-sided love is not love. It is torture… You wait for something that may never happen. You look at someone who does not look at you. You think of somebody day and night while you are unlikely to be in your mind. One-sided love is looking at his cell phone in hopes of receiving a phone call or message from someone who is currently phoning and typing with someone else. There is a lot of passion in something to give and only indifference in answer to get … One-sided love is not love. It is a battlefield … You fight against your own emotions. Fight your feelings. You fight the reality so as not to have to see that you love a lie. You fight against what people tell you to continue living in your fantasy world. You fight your own intuition. Stand against any logic. It’s a battle you can not win. A war you can not stop …. One-sided love is not love. It’s heartbreak .. There is one and the other only takes. One is loving and the other is not even touched by it. It is one who always hopes for more while the other avoids the topic of the future. One is ready to do anything to make it work and the other always makes excuses for not working. It is one who breaks inside and the other who always walks out the door without turning … One-sided love is not love. It’s in love. It’s obsession. It may not be a touch of love any more … You might like someone’s “idea” of how he might “be”. But real love is never one-sided. Real love is returned. Real love is patient. Real love is understanding. Real love is two people who embark on a wonderful journey with all their ups and downs. There are two people who choose from the bottom of their hearts. There are two people who try to accept each other and love the worst parts of each other. There are two people who promise to be there for each other in illness and health … Real love is loyalty. Real love is reassuring, is steady work on getting the “we”. It is intimacy. It is depth. It is power. It is a reason to want to live .